How to Help My Friend Who Constantly Lies?
Question by OHHEYDURR.: How to help my friend who constantly lies?
So I have a friend. Her mom and dad spilt several times while she was growing up, when she was a toddler her mom kicked her dad out of the house when she caught him doing cocaine in the washroom. Her dad is also an alcoholic, and doesn’t pay child support. She’s now 17 and has had to take on tons of responsibility pretty much raising her brother. Her mom works, but doesn’t clean the house or do any chores, my friend does. When i hear her talking to her mother it’s like SHE is the mother, and her mom is the child. “What do you want to eat for dinner? Can you pre-heat the oven please?” I catch glimpses of her home life and realize how drastically different it is to mine. Her little brother is currently 10 and he is given way to much freedom. He doesn’t have a bed time, and has unlimited internet access. He was recently suspended from school for bringing a knife and threatening another kid who was bullying him.
That’s her home life. So i’m assuming it’s contributing to THIS problem:
I have always saw her as a cute innocent girl, with a fantastic personality. She’s a real people person, and has a way of making best friends like it’s a walk in the park. It seems every time i talk to her, she has a new friend that she devotes her constant attention to, and then after about 2 months she gets bored and finds a new friend She manipulates everyone around her with her lies. She always ALWAYS has a male figure in her life, sometimes it will be a long-term boyfriend for about a year, but in those relationships she also has her other little “boyfriends” that she will cheat on her main boyfriend with. But nobody finds out about this because she lies and lies and lies untill everyone believes the lies. She’s lied this whole cute innocent girl persona and nobody would BELIEVE that she would ever cheat on her boyfriends because she is just so good. It’s not until very recently that EVERYONE has started to see the truth, and see the true her.
People have begun to hate her, when they see her talking to one of their guy friends, that guy will have about 10 people saying “watch out for her, she’s bad news” She’s so sneaky too. You don’t even notice she’s flirting with you or hitting on you. she’ll devote all of her “oh so charming” attention to one guy until he’s hooked. Then she drives him crazy and she’s so so unstable and unreliable.
She’s extremely promiscuous and the biggest liar i have ever met. I want to help her so badly because everyone’s beginning to hate her. What can I do?
Best answer:
Answer by Aubrey LOVES ASNWERS
maybe you just tell her truth. tell her like yu want to be told if it you. tell her truth and be honest. tell you her you love her and want to help not make her mad.
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