Why Did My GF Cheat on Me and Got Pregnant? Take Her Back?
Question by hunter849: Why did my GF cheat on me and got pregnant? Take her back?
My GF wanted me to get her pregnant. I asked her to wait a few months until after I received my promotion at work and saved up enough $ $ $ to buy her a ring, take her and her grandparents to Vegas for a quick wedding, and to so I could make arrangements for the baby (get an apartment in a nicer neighborhood).
My promotion would pay me $ 55,000-$ 60,000 per year. I saved up $ 20,000 with the help of my family members b/c my GF was unemployed for 1 1/2 years.
She then saw her ex-BF and became pregnant by him. He told her to get an abortion and b/c she was desperate for a baby, she refused. He now refuses to return her phone calls or text messages and doesn’t want anything to do with her or the baby.
She said she wanted a baby b/c: “I hate my family -that’s why I want a baby, so I can have a family of my own to love.”
The reason her family “hates” her is b/c one of her sister’s accused her (my GF) of sleeping with her husband.
My GF also spent the night at my best friend’s house but she claims “nothing happened” but my best friend called her an “alcoholic” and a “wh.ore” and said I should “move on from her”.
My GF cheated on her ex-BF when she was with him on a regular basis with her 1) friend with benefits and 2) a man she referred to as her “f*ckbuddy” and she also slept with her friend with benefits’ roommate one time.
I really do love her but I wish she would change. What can I do to help her? She wants a man in her life to help take care of her and her baby.
What did I do wrong for her to do this to me?
Best answer:
Answer by &?;
You did nothing wrong, she’s a hoe.
Don’t involve yourself in her problems…
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