My Mother Is a Crazy Alcoholic and I Can’t Cope With Her?
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I’ve been through a lot lately. I’ve finally started taking depression pills a while ago. My mom has been drinking since I was little. She drinks any kind of alcohol and drinks it constantly throughout the day and throughout the night. It is SO embarrasing at parties, too. I’ve talked to her over and over and she usually says something like, “You shut up.” or “No, I’m NOT.” or “Get studying.” Then I get really, really angry because she just sneers at me and walks away. Usually, I scream, “I hate you!” until I can’t talk, I’m so angry. She won’t listen to me because I’m so young…
I have a councillar I can talk to, but whenever my mom comes for that kind of meeting with both of us discussing this issue, she always is super sober and says she maybe has three drinks a day–WHICH IS THE BIGGEST LIE I’VE EVER HEARD. She drinks over and over and over and over! I see her! She gets so blasted by the end of the night…I feel so lost. I don’t really have too much of a mother’s love. I mean, sometimes she hugs me, but I shrug it off and back away, telling her she stinks of alcohol and peanuts (which is her “always” snack). Whenever my friends come over, I have to think up an excuse when they see a giant box of wine with the hose thing sticking out in the refrigerator. I am not over-exaggerating. My dad and my brother (who is 23) agree with me, also. She must have some kind of problem.
Remember, I have so much trouble talking to my mom. I just wish I could put her on Dr. Phil or Intervention or something…Though this isn’t the only reason I’m depressed, it is one of them that made a big impact.
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Answer by ~*dazed*~*and*~*confused~
your situation sounds very familiar to me. i’ve been on antideppressant since i was 12 and also had a mother with a sever drinking problem. all i can really tell you is to be strong until your old enough to move out. and be very careful not to follow in her footsteps. alcoholism is hereditary.
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