I May Have a Problem With Relationships?
Question by Mr J Man: I may have a problem with relationships?
I ask in this category because you guys usually give great, helpful advice. I am able to accept that I may be doing the following the wrong way, so please do not just insult me but help me find a better way to deal with this situation… My girlfriend has a lot of problems that she admits to. However my problem is that when I know someone to act shady or tell a lot of white lies, I “put them to the test” which seems wrong but always gives results.
I usually do the exact same thing that someone does to me so they know what it feels like. It seems to be 100% effective but it is disastrous if I am mistaken or even if I am not it doesn’t help the relationship.
Last night she was out with her girlfriend drinking alcohol and partying at clubs so I went out and did the same but now she is upset thinking that I messed with girls. She never answers her cellphone when with her girlfriends so when she called me I didn’t answer and told her now I was busy having fun and didn’t have time for her (basically the same thing she does to me). Now she is saying that my behavior was unacceptable and that she will leave me if I keep mentally abusing her that way… So how else am I supposed to resolve these issues when I comment nicely of my displeasure but when ignored I take it to the extreme and then it works, but can hurt the relationship?
I always seem to show people exactly what they are doing to me but when I do it to them they hate it but they expect me to accept when they do it. You will probably just have a simple answer and say find someone else but this has happened with all of my relationships and she and I are the most comfortable with each other. We can just sit in an empty room and enjoy our company that is how well we get along.
Best answer:
Answer by Julio Cesar
Tell her to answer her phone, girls are full of it
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