Was Leaving a Mistake?
Question by Tiffany: Was leaving a mistake?
My “husband” and I have had an ongoing dispute about his older brother moving back in “our” home when he gets paroled again. I already dealt with this twice and wasn’t willing to go through it again. I love my husband with all of my heart and leaving was the hardest thing I ever had to do. But I felt like I had no other option. His brother is extreamly racist and hates me for the color of my skin. And when my husband is around him he acts the same way. They both are alcoholics. So it gets worse when they are drinking. I told him over and over that I refused to live like that again, and if he moved him back in I would leave. And on Saturday night he told me he was going to let his brother move back in. So I started packing, he never asked me to stay, so I moved out on Monday. I thought he would have realized that I actually meant something to him and ask me to come back home. But now he is saying there is no place for me there, and he doesn’t want me back. Did I make a mistake?
My husband wouldn’t even talk to me if his brother was there. He acted like he hated me. I was so unhappy that I was put on anti-depressants. Am I wrong for not wanting to go down that road again? I never wanted it to come down to this. I just want to go home. I miss him so much. And he is acting like I am wrong for leaving. Am I wrong?
When his brother lived with us I was told every day that he wished his brother would leave me and find a mexican woman because there people needed to stay together. And I was just a stupid white b*tch and how he should just kill me so his brother could find someone else. And a bunch of other things along that line.
Best answer:
Answer by ShaH
No, actually that was a good decision, this shows that he doesn’t even care about you…
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