My Client Is an Alcoholic.?
Question by chelseaday: My client is an alcoholic.?
I have a client who is an alcoholic. I am someone who frequently works in her home, so I know alot about her personal life (she confides in me all the time) even though our relationship is technically professional.
My client went to AA and stayed sober for one year, then went back to drinking periodically. Now she is back to full-blown alcoholism. I have told her I am concerned; she replied that she does not really want to be sober again and feels she can handle her booze (obviously in denial).
I am feeling very mixed. She has confessed to driving drunk in the past – she has young children. This has been very troubling to me.
Today I called AA to get some information about how I can help my client – the rep I spoke to was great and very helpful … but essentially told me there is nothing I can do, that it is up to her.
However I am not sure I want to continue working with her. Should I explain why (sort of like a personal “intervention”) or simply step back quietly? I am not sure being honest will have any effect, or cause her to feel sorry for herself and drink more. My role is very confused because I am a professional person – not a counselor, mind you – and we have a personal relationship as well.
Thanks for your advice.
Best answer:
Answer by I8AShroom
If you don’t want to work with her you don’t need to explain. Simply terminate your relationship.
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