Do You Think Its Okay for Your Spouse to Drink Beer Every Night?
Question by Tina: Do you think its okay for your spouse to drink beer every night?
When my spouse and I met we spent a lot of evenings drinking, it was either just the 2 of us or with friends. At first we would have fun together but then, we started to have issues whenever we drank together, either I had something on my mind and it came out when we were drinking or vice versa so I got really turned off by drinking and could care less if I ever drank again. My spouse still drinks every day, he doesn’t get drunk but he buys a 12 pack a day and probably drinks 6-12 beers a day. Sometimes I tell him that it bothers me that he has to drink every day and he gets upset because he thinks I am changing and different than the women he married and it makes me feel guilty (We just got married this last July). So I let it go, keep my mouth shut and sometimes I’ll have 1 or 2 beers a night with him or sometimes I don’t drink at all. He still drinks his 6-12 beers a day/night and he don’t get out of control or anything but I am scared that he is dependant and that eventually it will cause problems. Well last night it started to bother me again and he said if I didn’t like him for him then I could divorce him. It broke my heart because I know his potential and he is a great husband and father with the drinking aside but I wish that he didn’t have to drink daily. I have no problems with going out on a weekend night once in awhile and drinking some beers with friends but this is not what I expected. I don’t want a divorce either, this is my 2nd marriage and I went into it thinking I would fight to the very end to work on our marriage and I don’t want to fail and be the women that gets married 500 times. I’ve never been a real big drinker before and things got out of hand and I thought we could grow together but obviously he feels like I had tricked him and now he’s stuck with this boring wife!!! It hurts my feelings because I can have fun and be silly without drinking. I feel like drinking was just a phase in my life for me. What do I do?
Best answer:
Answer by Valerie X Account #23!!!WhooHoo!
He’s a drunk.
Oh, and you aren’t “boring” because you don’t drink.
Drinking everyday is for LOSERS.
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