Ex-Girlfriend Got Extremely Drunk Before a Party I Was At?
Question by Brent: Ex-Girlfriend got extremely drunk before a party I was at?
She told her best girlfriend that she got super drunk that night because she was “afraid to see me.” We broke up early on during our freshman year of college and haven’t really seen each other until this party…I was looking forward to saying hello and that things didn’t need to be awkward, but when she showed up, she was absurd and ended up vomiting all night. Why?
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Answer by AMY W.
Well, as I woman, I could come up with a few potential reasons for her getting drunk before having to see you.
1. If you two had a bad relationship in the past, she may want to get drunk because it’ll make her mood better if/when she saw you at the party. I know that when I see certain ex-boyfriends, I tend to get upset or angered, so alcohol may stabilize her mood and let her still have fun at the party.
2. Maybe she was, honestly, afraid to see you and afraid for you to approach her, perhaps out of fear of what to say. So, drinking would help to “loosen her up” so that if you were to approach her, she’d be able to carry on a conversation much easier.
3. Perhaps this was just an excuse for her to get extremely drunk. I know some girls (especially those who don’t drink often) kind of feel bad/ashamed to get completely hammered, so they create excuses for it. Maybe she told her best friend this so that she won’t be thought of as “crazy” or an “alcoholic” at the moment.
If you’re brave enough, confront her and ask her what her reason for doing this was. Good luck!
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