I Need Answers QUICK for a Intervention on an Alcoholic Boyfriend!!?

Question by liltxrosebud: I need answers QUICK for a Intervention on an alcoholic boyfriend!!?
I need answers quickly. Please don’t tell me to leave. I am committed to helping him and his children. I need to know what kind of “demands” I need to put on him. We are having a family “Pow Wow” tonight. This IS the last straw. I’m not leaving yet, so please don’t post that. Tonight is going to be an “Intervention”. If it doesn’t work, I’m gone. But, I’m giving it this one last shot.
He drinks whiskey, he gets verbally abusive, emotionally abusive, and for the 1st time Monday night physically abusive. He is a fantastic man when he doesn’t drink. But Lord help us when he does! He always tries to kick me and the boys out…
He’s the only one right everyone else is wrong. He’s broken doors, knocked holes in the walls…
I need exact IN YOUR FACE answers (ultimatiums) whatever you want to call it…
Please…

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