Is It Possible?
Question by cupidgirl: Is it possible?
I have a very difficult background- My “family” is filled with mentally ill (some more severly than others) people who abuse eachother & use drugs and alcohol. I grew up in a very dysfunctional household & left when I was about 15 years old because I knew even then that I was in an abusive & unhealthy environment & wanted a better life for myself. With the support of friends I managed to get through school & have always lived my life respectably. When I was 19 I had my daughter & her father was killed in a car accident when she was two. I have raised her alone ever since. I am very healthy, do not use drugs or smoke (I have an occasional glass of wine), workout, educate myself on new subjects constantly, involve myself in empathetic programs for others, and have been in a few relationships. Until this day I choose not to interact with my family including my parents because I just dont see the point in forcing myself to interact with people who have always been… awful to me
I also do not trust these people to be normal around my daughter. I truly want a relationship with a man who is healthy, educated, & prosperous. Someone who comes from a good family & who will know how to be a good husband & father. My question is, will such a man even consider being with me since I have such an unpleasant story behind me?
Best answer:
Answer by Starman
A truly wise man will. Because of your background you have become wise beyond your years and truly know how to live a clean wholesome life. You care for others…. something far too many people neglect these days. You are intelligent and smart. Your daughter is very fortunate to have a mother like you. There are good men like you as well. You may find more of them among those that are older than you, but they’re out there. I’ve no doubt that a smart one will recognize what a gem you are and will take you as his bride…. give you his love and respect for all time.
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