Need a Man’s Perspective on This….?
Question by J.C.: Need a man’s perspective on this….?
Boyfriend left me for another women?
We dated for three months and after three weeks he said “I love you”. Better yet, he wrote this email to me on facebook stating that he wished that I would never leave him and that he loved me. So about two weeks before we broke up he said that he didn’t love me and that he didn’t know what love was. Then he tried to break up with me a week later but I persuaded him to wait it out and give me another week to see it anything changed.
So a week later, on a Friday, we were supposed to get together at my house but I canceled because I was tired and I wanted to sleep early. The next morning I got a call from his mother saying he never came home last night. What really happened was this: he went home, told his parents that he was going to go out again to see me to go iceskating or something but really he was out at a bar, drinking with this coworkers. He got wasted (he’s actually an alcoholic), and got a DUI. He was pretty much in jail.
So the evening of the next day, I wrote “dissapointed” as the status on my facebook. One of my friends commented and asked me what was wrong. I replied : “alcoholism”. After that, my then boyfriend un-friended me from facebook and pretty much broke up with me on a message on facebook. Stating that it was “over”. I asked who he was with two nights ago and pretty much had to squeeze the answer out of him, that it was his co-workers. He does security at a middle school M-F 3-6 pm. He is a year older than I am, we went to the same H.S, the same college, although we didn’t meet until college. And he lives within walking distance from me! ughhh!
He said that he had to work on himself, and get himself straightened out and that we couldn’t be together. That we had separate lives and that we were headed in different directions. What I want to know is, how could he go from fine to wanting nothing to do with me over one weekend. We didn’t even see each other. To this day, he won’t even talk to me. In person, over the phone, in email, whatever. He’s like a completely different person. He went from being this loving boyfriend to someone I don’t even know. I suspect that he was seeing one of his co-workers or perhaps someone he met at a bar , on the side and broke up with me to be with the other women. What do you think happened to him? Can you help me interpret his behavior?
Best answer:
Answer by I Punjabi
He’s a player . He told you what you wanted to hear til he saw something else he wanted. Trust me you’re better off without this jerk . She’s gonna go through the samething within no time .
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