Is It Ok to Get a Girl Drunk to Have Sex With Her?
Question by hunter849: is it ok to get a girl drunk to have sex with her?
I have 2 friends whom I’m very close to -“Jim” and “Kelly”.
Kelly and I went to Jim’s house for his bday party (his 3 month pregnant wife was out of town visiting her parents).
Jim kept pouring Kelly drinks -she has alcohol and mental issues and Jim knew this b/c his sister has the same problems as Kelly.
Kelly’s parents were both drug addicts who had just committed suicide, her BF was cheating on her, she had lost her job and her apartment and was in severe depression.
Jim pushed me out the door and told me to leave, I tried to stay but Kelly said, “Don’t worry, u have to go to work 2morrow -Jim will drop me home.”
Kelly trusted Jim as one of her best friends (and so did I).
As I drove off, Jim tried to pull Kelly towards him and kiss her but she walked away.
Afterwards, other people that were at the party told me that Jim had kept pouring Kelly drinks and that she was “completely wasted” and that Jim asked them all to leave too.
Jim then bragged to everyone that Kelly was a “wh.ore” and that he “wore that azz out.”
Kelly did not want to be left alone with Jim again and the next time we hung out -Kelly refused his advances and Jim said, “She has a drinking problem -she’s an alcoholic and a wh.ore.”
B/c Kelly said she was “sooo not attracted to Jim” -he stopped being her friend and she said, “He’s all but_t_hurt now b/c I won’t sleep with him.”
Kelly tells me, “Why didn’t u stay that nite? Why didn’t u just call in sick to work and stay with me?”
I feel guilty as sin but I dunno what to do about Jim -he’s always been a great friend to me but my values and morals tell me that he was WRONG:
(1) he got his friend, who trusted him, extremely drunk when she was going thru a lot of issues.
(2) he took advantage of her (I would call it rape).
(3) he cheated on his pregnant wife and unborn child.
(4) he stopped being friends with Kelly after she refused to sleep with him again.
(5) he started calling Kelly a “wh.ore” and “alcoholic”.
Should I confront Jim? But if I do, he’s just gonna say that I’m only confronting him b/c I have feelings for Kelly (which I do since she has a BF, I’ve never approached her sexually b/c I don’t want to damage her relationship).
Was I wrong? Was Jim wrong? How do I deal with this?
Was I wrong for not staying and watching over Kelly that nite? I only left b/c I thought Kelly wanted to sleep with him.
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