I Have a “Family Meeting” today..HELP!?!?
Question by octopus: I have a “family meeting” today..HELP!?!?
Hi, so lately, everything has been happening to me, ALL AT THE WRONG TIME. everything bad that can happen to me is all happening in one week. the other day i had a run-in with the law and my best friend was arrested for possession of marijuana and paraphernalia. i was let off the hook but my parents think i am “guilty by association”. my friend’s parents read his texts and there were texts from everyone involved about smoking. so the tension in my house is EXTREMELY high and everyone’s on edge. and then something happened today! an ex was pissed at me because i wouldn’t give him his pants back because i wear them alot, plus it wasn’t a trade. so my ex filled my old flask with alcohol and left it on my front porch. and my parents found that. also, i found out today that my friend’s parents told mine that they found empty alcohol bottles on the side of their house and assumed that me and my best friend had been drinking. but that wasn’t even me that time! i told them that, but they won’t believe me because of everything that has happened recently. this has all happened in the past 3 days. please help. how can i try to fix this problem? because all my friends smoke pot. i have on occasion, but i don’t do it regularly, but my parents think i have a “substance abuse problem” now because they may have a hint that i smoked pot? i’m going tell em the truth about the flask, but those bottles weren’t mine! should i tell em its not mine, and then if they don’t believe me that’s their problem? or should i have my friend’s parents call mine and tell em its not, because their son (my best friend) told them it wasnt mine, only his. so, if you were in this situation, what would you do?
*also, please no saying “oh you shouldn’t have done it in the first place, now its your problem” because i can’t go back in time and reverse this so hah yeah.
Best answer:
Answer by ouragon
I’m a mom of three, and I’d send you to rehab.
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