How Can I Forgive and Forget?!?
Question by I’m in pieces…baby fix me: How can I forgive and forget?!?
I have so much built up anger, and sadness towards my mother.
As a child she was an alcoholic who struggled with men and money. She got married to some guy just for the financial security. She ruined my life with all of her drinking and financial woes..
I was always the last person she cared about. She put drinking and her husband before me ALWAYS. Every month it was something different “ohh I love my husband” or “I’m leaving him and clearing out his bank account”. She moved away from me about 5 states away, twice, while I was in middle school. She embarrassed me and my family and our reputation.
Now that I’m becoming older and although she still hasnt changed, I want to change our relationship. It seems that everyones answer is to “Forgive”. I have so much anger and hatred for what she has done to me. How can I fix this relationship? I don’t want to have to avoid talking about my mother and having hatred toward her. Please help me? Any advice would be great!
Thanks (:
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