Is It All in My Head..or Does This Guy Like Me?
Question by katie: Is it all in my head..or does this guy like me?
I met this guy on a student movie film. He was my director and I was his actress. He would constantly hug me and tell me how amazing I was doing, he said i was stealing the movie and so on. He asked how I was doing rubbed my shoulders, touched my lower back every time he talked to me. He would smile at me and wink at me more times than I can count. We were talking and he said “Any guy who would dump you would have to be out of his ******* mind.” But he didnt look at me when he said it…he looked down and away. Later that night the crew met for some drinks. When he came, he didnt say hello to anyone he just had this huge smile on him looking straight at me…and said “there she is” Then he immediately passed through the crowd came over to me and just held me in his arms for at least 10 minutes, so close to his chest. Then as he said goodbye he called me Darlin, and had me kiss him on the cheek and said he would call.
He called but he was very awkward he was in the middle of editing and he called just to tell me that I was amazing and that I was stealing the movie and all eyes were on me and that he was blown away by my performance. We then bumped into eachother a week later and he was in a hurry, yet he stayed and talked to me and he kept the conversation going for at least 10-15 min, asking me questions but he seemed really nervous, he was digging his hands into his pockets, figedting, and shaking his legs. He told me that the he got a really bad critique on the movie and repeatedly said he was sorry, that he didnt have a good movie to give to me. He seemed really upset by it.
A month passed and I had called him to see if the movie was done…after he told me why it wasnt; because he is swamped with school work and work (hes a Grad student getting his masters) But when that was done he asked me how I was doing and at first i was hesistant so I just said fine…but he kept at it and asked me what was wrong. So i told him and we talked and he shared some private information about his life. His voice softened. He called me a lovely girl and started complimenting me again. I thought he would ask me out but he didnt. So I said “I appologize if this is too forward but do you maybe want to have a drink with me sometime…talking to you just really made me feel better” He immediately said yes, and quietly laughed and said “That wasnt forward at all and he started saying that he doesnt want it to be anything alcoholic” which I thought was weird cause i know he is not a recovering alcoholic or anything like that. He said “I want to be honest with you I do not have a lot of time so it probably wont be till next weekend.”
Its been a month and the movie still isnt done and the last time we talked I called cause I was upset with something serious in my life something in which we talked about and he immediately called me back to see how I was, he seemed really concerned tried to make me laugh gave me advice, complimented me again and again and he kept asking me questions about me and he kept the conversation going. HE then brought up the fact that he never got back to me, he said he really hasnt had an hour to spare and that he was really sorry. He said he would talk to me real soon
Ok so does he like me or is he just a really nice person? Help I need a guy’s perspective. They say if a guy is really into you then he will make time. Is all this in my head.
Oh and his friends told me that he is a workaholic and a worrier. And i saw it when he was my director, however he was always excited when he was working with me.
Oh and one time I was upset and I called him at 2am and he picked up and sounded like he was asleep and I appologized and he said in a very soft sweet voice no, no, no its ok are you ok. What’s on your mind ? And he just listened to me and he said “goodnight darlin.”
What is this guy really thinking is he just not that into me???? I know he’s not a player or something because he was in a relationship for five years. And all his friends are coupled up or even married. Guys only HELP!!!
Best answer:
Answer by bubblyduck
okah. i am not a guy but.. here goes
what i think is that he must reall ylike you..but i think he know,s that he is a workaholic and so he wants to be with you but he doesn,t want to hurt you by like going out or anything bc he would always be busyy busyy busy..
got it?
i hope i helpedd!
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